Yesterday, shortly after that blog posting, a post-partum doula came to take care of us for a few hours. It was a gift from my mother-in-law. When the doula arrived, I told her I had reached a low and was exhausted. She told me that I must nap, and then she made me lunch, did laundry, and took Amelia. I showered, slept a bit, and, mostly, enjoyed the company of another woman. By the time Joe came home, I was re-energized and feeling great. Joe asked me what I learned from the visit with the doula, since he noticed such a change in me. I gave it a moment of thought, and replied "that I need help!"
In every other culture, women are surrounded by other women and cared for following child birth for weeks. They rely on each other for emotional support, and help each other to cope and adjust. Our society tends to be so isolating for new moms. I am already so fortunate to have the support of the mama's group. Two of the mamas came to visit this week and drop off meals. Again, its their presence and empathy and encouragement, though, that I most valued.
Anyways, we are alone today but all is well. Being cared for yesterday has given me energy for today. My cup is no longer empty. Amelia had a long awake stretch last night (1am - 4am), but I am coping this a.m.
Joe is taking time off as of this afternoon -yeah!!! We will have him home with us now for 11 days. woo-hoo!
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